Two stones side by side: a 4 × 8 mm marquise in aquamarine blue and a 4 × 6 mm pear in clear white, both simulated. Silver leaves frame the pair, and the band is two strands twisted like a vine, one of them set with small round stones. Solid 925 sterling silver with a rhodium finish.
Toi et Moi
Simulated Aquamarine, 4 × 8 mm
Simulated Diamond, 4 × 6 mm
Leaf and Vine Band
Solid 925 Sterling Silver
Sizes 4–11
The Design
Toi et moi means "you and me": two stones set together, one for each person. Here a pale blue marquise leans against a white pear, each in its own prongs, so the two read as a pair and not as a center stone with a side stone. Our guide to what a toi et moi ring means covers the history of the style.
The setting is botanical. A leaf curls up on either side of the stones, and the band splits into two strands that twist around each other like a vine, one polished and one set with a row of small round stones. If you are looking past a plain solitaire, our guides to fairy engagement rings and non-traditional engagement rings map the wider field.
The Stones
Both stones are simulated. The marquise is a simulated aquamarine: a faceted blue stone made to match the pale sea blue of aquamarine. It is not natural or lab-grown aquamarine. The pear and the small round stones on the band are simulated diamonds (cubic zirconia), not diamonds.
Simulated stones give you the color and the sparkle at a far lower price than the natural gems, and they are evenly colored and free of visible inclusions. For the natural stone this color is modeled on, see our aquamarine guide.
Metal
The ring is solid 925 sterling silver with a rhodium finish, the same platinum-group metal used on white gold. The rhodium gives the bright white surface and shields the silver underneath from tarnishing.
Part of our toi et moi engagement rings and leaf engagement rings collections, alongside the rest of our sterling silver rings.
Specifications
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Stone one: Simulated aquamarine, marquise cut, 4 × 8 mm
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Stone two: Simulated diamond (cubic zirconia), pear cut, 4 × 6 mm
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Accent stones: Round cubic zirconia along one strand of the band
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Metal: Solid 925 sterling silver, rhodium finish
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Design: Toi et moi setting, leaf details, twisted vine band
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Sizes: 4 to 11, including half sizes
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Engraving: Available, up to 16 characters
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Presentation: Free luxury velvet jewelry box
Care
Clean with warm water, mild soap and a soft brush, and dry with a soft cloth. Avoid abrasive polishes and chlorine, which wear the rhodium finish, and take the ring off for the gym, gardening and heavy cleaning. Store it in its velvet box rather than loose.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is the blue stone real aquamarine?
No. It is a simulated aquamarine, a faceted blue stone made to match the color of aquamarine. It is not natural or lab-grown aquamarine.
Is the white stone a diamond?
No. The pear stone and the small round stones on the band are simulated diamonds (cubic zirconia).
What does toi et moi mean?
It is French for "you and me". The style sets two stones side by side, one for each person in the couple.
How big are the two stones?
The marquise is 4 × 8 mm and the pear is 4 × 6 mm.
What is it made of?
Solid 925 sterling silver throughout, with a rhodium finish for a bright white surface. No brass or base metal.
Will the silver tarnish?
The rhodium finish acts as a barrier, so it resists the darkening untreated sterling develops. The finish does wear thin after years of daily wear, and we can refinish the ring when it does.
Can I wear it every day?
Yes, with normal care. Take it off for manual work, swimming and cleaning, and keep it away from harsh chemicals.
What sizes are available?
Sizes 4 through 11, including every half size.
Will a wedding band sit flush against it?
Not entirely. The two stones sit wider than the band, so a straight band leaves a small gap. A contour or curved band will nest more closely.
Can I have it engraved?
Yes. Engraving is available on the inner band, up to 16 characters, and can be added as an option at checkout.
Does it come with a ring box?
Yes. Every order arrives in a free luxury velvet jewelry box.