Toi Et Moi Lab-Grown Diamond and Aquamarine Ring in 14K White Gold (IGI Certified)
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Size Chart
Find your ring size
- Print at 100% / Actual Size — turn off "fit to page" or scaling.
- Check the printed ruler measures exactly 80 mm.
Method A — Measure a ring
Lay a ring you own over the circles. The matching circle is your size.
Method B — Finger strip
Cut out the strip, wrap it around your finger, thread the end through the slit, and read your size.
This on-screen tool is a close guide, not a guaranteed exact fit. For certainty, order a ring sizer.
| US | Diameter | Circumf. | UK/AU/IE | EU |
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UK, Australia & Ireland share the letter system. European sizes are approximate conversions.
MADE TO ORDER: HANDCRAFTED IN 3–6 WEEKS
Questions about metal, sizing or timing? Talk to our team.
This Toi et Moi ring in solid 14K white gold pairs two stones cheek to cheek — a pear-cut IGI-certified lab-grown diamond beside an emerald-cut natural aquamarine. “Toi et Moi” is French for “you and me”: two distinct souls brought together as one, in icy blue and brilliant white. A romantic, non-traditional engagement ring or meaningful gift.
Two stones, you & me
The Toi et Moi (French for “you and me”) setting places two stones side by side, angled toward each other — a romantic symbol of two lives joining. Here a crisp white lab-grown diamond meets a soft icy-blue aquamarine, a pairing that stands for clarity, harmony and an everlasting connection.
The lab-grown diamond
One side is a pear (teardrop) cut lab-grown diamond, about 5.0×8.0 mm and roughly 0.9 carat, graded D color (the highest, completely colorless) and VVS clarity. A lab-grown diamond is a real diamond — the same carbon crystal, hardness (Mohs 10) and fire as a mined diamond — simply created in a lab, ethically and eco-consciously. It is IGI-certified with a certificate of authenticity and a unique serial number. Learn more in our complete lab-grown diamond guide and IGI vs GIA certification explainer.
The natural aquamarine
The other side is a natural emerald-cut aquamarine, about 5.0×7.0 mm, in a cool icy blue. Aquamarine is a natural beryl, Mohs 7.5–8, ethically sourced, and the birthstone for March. Its calm sea-blue is the perfect foil to the diamond’s bright sparkle.
Choose your metal & karat
The ring is made in solid white gold or platinum — never plated or filled — so the cool color runs all the way through. Choose the metal that suits you:
White gold is gold alloyed with white metals and finished with rhodium for a bright cool-white; platinum is naturally white and especially dense and durable. Our 10K vs 14K vs 18K karat guide explains the differences. Prefer yellow or rose gold? This ring can be made in either on request — contact us for a custom quote.
Specifications
| Design | Toi et Moi two-stone |
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| Stone 1 | IGI-certified lab-grown diamond, pear cut, 5.0×8.0 mm (≈ 0.9 ct), D color · VVS |
| Stone 2 | Natural aquamarine, emerald cut, 5.0×7.0 mm, icy blue |
| Hardness | Diamond Mohs 10 · aquamarine 7.5–8 |
| Certification | IGI certificate + unique serial number |
| Metal | Solid 10K, 14K or 18K white gold, or platinum |
| Band width | ≈ 1.7 mm |
Sizing & care
The ring is made to order in full, half and quarter sizes from 3 to 11, and complimentary engraving of up to 16 characters is included. If you’re unsure of your size, use our ring size guide before ordering. Diamond is the hardest gem there is (Mohs 10); aquamarine is durable but softer, so clean gently with warm soapy water and a soft brush, avoid harsh chemicals and hard knocks, and store the ring separately.
Explore more of our women’s engagement rings and the full range of solid gold rings.
Frequently asked questions
What does “Toi et Moi” mean?
It’s French for “you and me.” A Toi et Moi ring sets two stones side by side to symbolize two people coming together — here, a lab-grown diamond and a natural aquamarine.
Is a lab-grown diamond a real diamond?
Yes — a lab-grown diamond is a real diamond, chemically and physically identical to a mined diamond (the same carbon crystal, Mohs 10 hardness and fire). The only difference is that it’s created in a lab rather than mined.
Is it IGI-certified?
Yes — the diamond is IGI-certified and comes with a certificate of authenticity and a unique serial number verifying its quality and origin. See our IGI vs GIA guide for more.
Is the aquamarine natural?
Yes — it’s a natural, ethically sourced aquamarine (a beryl, Mohs 7.5–8) in an emerald cut, and the birthstone for March.
How durable is the ring?
The diamond is Mohs 10 (the hardest gem), while the aquamarine is Mohs 7.5–8 and a little softer, so the ring benefits from gentle care and protection from hard knocks.
What metals can I choose?
Solid 10K, 14K or 18K white gold, or platinum, from the drop-down. Yellow or rose gold are available on request — contact us for a custom quote.
Is the metal solid or plated?
Always solid. The metal runs through the entire piece, so it will never wear off or expose a base metal underneath.
What’s the difference between white gold and platinum?
White gold is gold alloyed with white metals and rhodium-finished for a bright cool-white; platinum is naturally white and especially dense and durable. Both look similar; platinum is heavier and premium.
What’s the difference between 10K, 14K and 18K?
Higher karats hold more pure gold but are a little softer; lower karats are harder and more affordable. See our karat comparison guide for details.
How do I find my ring size?
Use our ring size guide. The ring is made to order in sizes 3 to 11, including half and quarter sizes.
Is engraving included?
Yes — complimentary engraving of up to 16 characters is included. Add your text at checkout.
How long until it ships?
Each ring is handmade to order and typically ships within 3–5 weeks.
✨ Production time
Every ring on this page is cast, set and finished for your order. Nothing is taken from stock.
- Made-to-order solid gold and platinum: 3–6 weeks, depending on the design. Pavé settings, custom sizing and engraving sit at the longer end.
🚚 United States
Shipping is added once your ring is finished. These are the options you will see at checkout:
- USPS Ground Advantage — free on every order
- FedEx Home Delivery® — $10
- FedEx 2Day® — $22
- FedEx Overnight — $35
Please note: upgraded shipping speeds up transit only — it does not shorten the 3–6 week production time. Transit estimates begin the day your ring ships, not the day you order, and can vary with carrier delays. Shipping fees are non-refundable.
🌍 International
We ship worldwide with DHL. Live rates for your address are calculated at checkout — usually DHL Express Worldwide, with DHL eCommerce Parcel Standard also offered to some destinations as a slower, lower-cost option.
For many countries, duties and taxes can be prepaid at checkout for a smoother delivery — if prepaid, no additional fees are due on arrival. Customs fees are set by your country and are non-refundable once the order has shipped.
Every order ships fully insured and requires a signature. Full details on our Shipping & Delivery page.
Engraving is cut into the inside of the band, so it stays between the two of you.
AVAILABILITY
Engraving is offered on most — though not all — designs. If it is available for this ring, an engraving field appears with the options above.
CHARACTER LIMITS
Limits depend on the width and design of the band. Spaces count toward the total.
• Women’s rings: up to 16 characters
• Men’s rings: up to 25 characters
FONT AND SYMBOLS
Standard engraving is complimentary and set in Arial, chosen because it stays legible at very small sizes. These symbols are included at no extra cost:
♥ ♡ ☾ ✩ ★ ✿ ♬ ♯ • ■
Custom fonts, or symbols outside this selection, are available for $25. For a logo or bespoke design, email us an SVG file before you order so our team can confirm it will engrave cleanly. Very fine or highly detailed artwork may not suit narrow or delicate bands — we will tell you before we proceed rather than after.
HOW TO ORDER
• Choose your ring, metal and size
• Enter your text in the engraving field
• For a custom font or symbol, contact us before ordering
• Check your wording carefully before checkout — we engrave exactly what is entered
Engraved rings are cut specifically for you and are final sale. They cannot be returned or exchanged. See our Engraving page for examples, and Returns & Refunds for full terms.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Every ring on this page is made in solid gold or platinum — never plated, never gold-filled. Solid gold comes in 10K, 14K and 18K across yellow, white and rose; our platinum is 95% pure, naturally hypoallergenic, and white the whole way through. Available metals vary by design and are listed in the selector above. Our Precious Metal Guide explains how each one wears.
Side by side and brand new, the two look almost identical. The difference shows up over years of wear.
White gold is a gold alloy finished with rhodium for brightness. It sits lighter on the hand and costs less, and the rhodium finish is refreshed every few years to keep it crisp.
Platinum is white all the way through, so there is no finish to renew. It is around 40% denser — noticeably weightier — and over time develops a soft matte patina that many people prefer. It can be polished back to a high shine whenever you like.
Our Platinum vs Gold guide compares durability, cost and upkeep in full.
Solid gold is gold throughout — alloyed for strength, but the same metal at the surface as at the core. Gold vermeil is sterling silver with a layer of gold applied over it, which thins with wear and needs replating to stay bright. Rings on this page are solid gold or platinum only. Our Precious Metal Guide sets out where each makes sense.
Neither tarnishes. Gold and platinum are two of the most stable metals used in fine jewelry, and both hold their color indefinitely. Platinum does develop a satin patina as it is worn — that is surface texture rather than damage, and it polishes out at any time. Warm water, mild soap and a soft brush is all either metal asks for; see our Jewelry Care Guide.
Nothing on this page is pulled from a shelf. Each solid gold and platinum ring is cast, set and finished for your order, which takes 3 to 6 weeks depending on the design — pavé settings, custom sizing and engraving sit at the longer end. Shipping is added once your ring is finished, and paying for faster shipping speeds up transit only — it does not shorten production. Full timings are on our Shipping & Delivery page.
Use the Size Chart linked beside the Add to Bag button, or our full Ring Size Chart. Because these rings are made to order, we cut your size from the start rather than resizing a stock band — so measure carefully. Your first resizing is free if it is still not right. Most designs can be adjusted, though eternity bands and rings with stones set the whole way around usually cannot.
On most designs, yes — if engraving is available for this ring, a text field appears with the options above. Standard engraving is complimentary: up to 16 characters on women’s rings and 25 on men’s, set in Arial, with a small selection of symbols included. Custom fonts and symbols are $25 and are arranged before you order. See the Engraving page for what is possible. Engraved rings are final sale.
Returns and exchanges are accepted within 14 days of delivery on unworn rings in original condition. Because solid gold and platinum rings are made to order, they are subject to a restocking fee, and engraved pieces are final sale. Full terms are on our Returns & Refunds page. Every ring is also covered by our lifetime warranty against manufacturing defects.