The Toi Et Moi is a nature-inspired rose gold moss agate ring in solid 14K rose gold, pairing two natural moss agate gemstones — a hexagon cut and a pear cut — side by side. Toi et moi, French for “you and me,” sets two distinct stones together to symbolize two souls united, an organic, alternative choice for engagements and anniversaries.
Two-stone toi et moi
Natural moss agate
Hexagon & pear cuts
Nature-inspired
Solid 14K rose gold
One-of-a-kind stones
Two stones, one story
The toi et moi setting places two gemstones together on a single band, each hand-set and angled toward the other. Here a hexagon moss agate meets a pear-cut moss agate for about 2 total carats of green, garden-like character — and because moss agate forms with natural inclusions, no two rings are ever exactly alike.
Natural moss agate
Both stones are natural moss agate, a translucent form of chalcedony (a variety of quartz) filled with green, moss-like dendritic mineral inclusions that look like a tiny landscape captured in stone. Moss agate has long been called the “gardener's stone” and associated with growth, balance and new beginnings. It sits at Mohs 6.5–7 — a little softer than harder gems, so it rewards gentle care.
Choose your metal & karat
The Toi Et Moi is made in solid rose gold — never plated or filled — so the warm rose color runs all the way through and won't wear off. Choose the karat that suits you:
Rose gold gets its warm blush from a copper alloy, and higher karats hold more pure gold while lower karats are a touch harder. Our 10K vs 14K vs 18K karat guide explains the differences. Prefer white or yellow gold? This design can be made in either on request — contact us for a custom quote. If you'd like to learn more about the stone itself, our guide to what moss agate symbolizes is a lovely place to start.
Specifications
| Stone 1 |
Natural moss agate, hexagon cut, 7×7 mm |
| Stone 2 |
Natural moss agate, pear cut, 6×8 mm |
| Total carat |
≈ 2 ct |
| Hardness |
Moss agate Mohs 6.5–7 |
| Metal |
Solid 10K, 14K or 18K rose gold |
| Band width |
≈ 1.7 mm |
Sizing & care
The Toi Et Moi is made to order in full and half sizes from 3 to 11, and complimentary engraving of up to 16 characters is included. If you're unsure of your size, use our ring size guide before ordering. Moss agate is a softer gem (Mohs 6.5–7), so clean gently with warm soapy water and a soft brush, avoid ultrasonic and steam cleaners, harsh chemicals and hard knocks, and store the ring separately to keep the stones looking their best.
Explore more of our women's engagement rings and the full range of solid gold rings.
Every Toi Et Moi ring is handmade to order in solid metal and typically ships within 3–5 weeks, packaged in a signature ring box. Because moss agate is a natural stone, each one's pattern is unique.
Frequently asked questions
What does “toi et moi” mean?
Toi et moi is French for “you and me.” The two-stone design places two gems side by side to symbolize two people coming together — a romantic choice for engagements and anniversaries.
What is moss agate?
Moss agate is a natural, translucent form of chalcedony (a variety of quartz) with green, moss-like dendritic mineral inclusions. Each stone's pattern is formed by nature and completely unique.
Are the stones natural?
Yes. Both stones are natural moss agate, one hexagon cut and one pear cut, set side by side.
Is moss agate a diamond?
No. Moss agate is a form of quartz (chalcedony), not a diamond — its beauty is in its green, garden-like inclusions rather than diamond sparkle.
How durable is it?
Moss agate is Mohs 6.5–7, a little softer than harder gems, so it benefits from gentle care and is best kept from hard knocks.
How should I care for it?
Clean gently with warm soapy water and a soft brush. Avoid ultrasonic and steam cleaners, harsh chemicals and hard knocks, and store the ring separately.
What metals can I choose?
Solid 10K, 14K or 18K rose gold from the drop-down. White or yellow gold are available on request — contact us for a custom quote.
Is the metal solid or plated?
Always solid. The metal runs through the entire piece, so it will never wear off or expose a base metal underneath.
Why is each ring a little different?
Moss agate forms with its own natural inclusion pattern, so no two stones are alike — each ring is genuinely one-of-a-kind.
How do I find my ring size?
Use our ring size guide. The Toi Et Moi is made to order in sizes 3 to 11, including half and quarter sizes.
Is engraving included?
Yes — complimentary engraving of up to 16 characters is included. Add your text at checkout.
How long until it ships?
Each Toi Et Moi ring is handmade to order and typically ships within 3–5 weeks.
