The Toi Et Moi is a romantic two-stone morganite and diamond ring in solid 14K white gold, pairing a natural radiant-cut peach morganite with an IGI-certified pear-cut lab-grown diamond in a modern open bypass design. Toi et moi — French for “you and me” — sets two distinct stones side by side to symbolize two souls united in love, balancing soft blush warmth with icy white brilliance.
Two-stone toi et moi
Natural peach morganite
IGI lab-grown diamond
Bypass design
Solid 14K white gold
Made to order
Two stones, one story
The toi et moi bypass setting sweeps two gemstones together on a single open band, each hand-set and angled toward the other. Here the blushing peach of morganite meets the icy white fire of a real lab-grown diamond — a balance of strength and softness that captures the meaning of two people joining as one.
The peach morganite
The first stone is a natural radiant-cut morganite, about 5×7 mm, in the delicate peachy-pink hue morganite is loved for and long associated with compassion and unconditional love. A natural, ethically sourced member of the beryl family, morganite is a durable Mohs 7.5–8 stone well suited to everyday wear with sensible care.
The lab-grown diamond
The second stone is a pear-cut (teardrop) lab-grown diamond, about 5×7 mm and 0.8 carat, graded D color, VVS clarity. A lab-grown diamond is a real diamond — chemically, physically and optically identical to a mined diamond, with the same Mohs 10 hardness — simply grown in a lab, so it's more sustainable and better value. This one is IGI certified with a certificate of authenticity and a unique serial number. Learn more in our complete guide to lab-grown diamonds and our IGI vs GIA certification guide.
Choose your metal & karat
The Toi Et Moi is made in solid white gold or platinum — never plated or filled — so the color runs all the way through and won't wear off. Choose the option that suits you:
White gold is finished with rhodium for a bright white shine, while platinum is naturally white, denser and the ultimate heirloom metal. Our 10K vs 14K vs 18K karat guide explains the gold options. Prefer yellow or rose gold? This design can be made in either on request — contact us for a custom quote.
Specifications
| Stone 1 |
Natural morganite, radiant cut, 5×7 mm |
| Stone 2 |
IGI-certified lab-grown diamond, pear cut, D / VVS, 5×7 mm (≈ 0.8 ct) |
| Color |
Peachy pink · colorless white |
| Hardness |
Morganite Mohs 7.5–8 · diamond Mohs 10 |
| Certificate |
IGI certificate + serial number (diamond) |
| Metal |
Solid 10K, 14K, 18K white gold or platinum |
| Setting |
Open bypass, prong-set |
Sizing & care
The Toi Et Moi is made to order in full and half sizes from 3 to 11, and complimentary engraving of up to 16 characters is included. If you're unsure of your size, use our ring size guide before ordering. The diamond is extremely hard (Mohs 10), while the morganite (Mohs 7.5–8) is a little softer, so clean with warm soapy water and a soft brush, avoid harsh chemicals and hard knocks, and store the ring separately so the two stones don't scratch each other.
Explore more of our women's engagement rings and the full range of solid gold rings.
Every Toi Et Moi ring is handmade to order in solid metal and typically ships within 3–5 weeks, packaged in a signature ring box.
Frequently asked questions
What does “toi et moi” mean?
Toi et moi is French for “you and me.” The two-stone design places two gems side by side to symbolize two people coming together — a romantic choice for engagements and anniversaries.
What are the two stones?
A natural radiant-cut peach morganite and a pear-cut lab-grown diamond, each about 5×7 mm, set together in an open bypass band.
Is the diamond a real diamond?
Yes. The lab-grown diamond is a real diamond — chemically, physically and optically identical to a mined diamond, with the same Mohs 10 hardness — simply grown in a lab. It's IGI certified. See our lab-grown diamond guide.
Is the morganite natural?
Yes. The morganite is a natural, ethically sourced gemstone from the beryl family, in morganite's signature peachy pink, at Mohs 7.5–8.
Is it certified?
Yes. The lab-grown diamond is IGI certified and comes with a certificate of authenticity and a unique serial number. See our IGI vs GIA guide.
How should I care for it?
Clean with warm soapy water and a soft brush. Avoid harsh chemicals and hard knocks, and store the ring separately so the two stones don't scratch each other.
What metals can I choose?
Solid 10K, 14K or 18K white gold, or platinum, from the drop-down. Yellow or rose gold are available on request — contact us for a custom quote.
Is the metal solid or plated?
Always solid. The metal runs through the entire piece, so it will never wear off or expose a base metal underneath.
What's the difference between white gold and platinum?
White gold is gold alloyed for strength and rhodium-plated for a bright white shine. Platinum is naturally white, denser and more durable, and never needs re-plating — a premium, heirloom choice.
How do I find my ring size?
Use our ring size guide. The Toi Et Moi is made to order in sizes 3 to 11, including half and quarter sizes.
Is engraving included?
Yes — complimentary engraving of up to 16 characters is included. Add your text at checkout.
How long until it ships?
Each Toi Et Moi ring is handmade to order and typically ships within 3–5 weeks.
