The Toi Et Moi is a romantic two-stone morganite and moissanite ring in solid 14K rose gold, pairing a natural emerald-cut morganite with a brilliant pear-cut moissanite. Toi et moi — French for “you and me” — sets two distinct gems side by side to symbolize two souls united in love, a soft, romantic choice for engagements and anniversaries.
Two-stone toi et moi
Natural morganite
D/VVS1 moissanite
Emerald & pear cuts
Solid 14K rose gold
Made to order
Two stones, one story
The toi et moi setting places two gemstones together on a single band, each hand-set and angled toward the other — the signature toi et moi silhouette. Here the blush warmth of morganite meets the brilliant white fire of moissanite, a soft yet radiant pairing against warm rose gold.
The morganite
The first stone is a natural emerald-cut morganite, about 5×7 mm and 0.8 carats, in the delicate blush-pink hue morganite is loved for and long associated with love and compassion. A natural member of the beryl family, morganite is a durable Mohs 7.5–8 stone well suited to everyday wear with sensible care.
The moissanite
The second stone is a pear-cut moissanite, about 5×7 mm and 0.8 carats, graded D colorless, VVS1 clarity — the top tier for moissanite. Moissanite is a lab-created gem prized for its exceptional fire (a higher refractive index than diamond), near-diamond hardness (Mohs 9–9.25) and outstanding value. It's its own distinct gemstone rather than a diamond.
Choose your metal & karat
The Toi Et Moi is made in solid rose gold — never plated or filled — so the warm rose color runs all the way through and won't wear off. Choose the karat that suits you:
Rose gold gets its romantic blush from a copper alloy, and higher karats hold more pure gold while lower karats are a touch harder. Our 10K vs 14K vs 18K karat guide explains the differences. Prefer white or yellow gold? This design can be made in either on request — contact us for a custom quote.
Specifications
| Stone 1 |
Natural morganite, emerald cut, 5×7 mm (≈ 0.8 ct) |
| Stone 2 |
Moissanite, pear cut, D color / VVS1, 5×7 mm (≈ 0.8 ct) |
| Total carat |
≈ 1.6 ct |
| Hardness |
Morganite Mohs 7.5–8 · moissanite Mohs 9–9.25 |
| Metal |
Solid 10K, 14K or 18K rose gold |
| Band width |
≈ 1.7 mm |
Sizing & care
The Toi Et Moi is made to order in full and half sizes from 3 to 11, and complimentary engraving of up to 16 characters is included. If you're unsure of your size, use our ring size guide before ordering. Both stones are durable, but the morganite (Mohs 7.5–8) is a little softer than the moissanite, so clean with warm soapy water and a soft brush, avoid harsh chemicals and hard knocks, and store the ring separately so the two stones don't scratch each other.
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Every Toi Et Moi ring is handmade to order in solid metal and typically ships within 3–5 weeks, packaged in a signature ring box.
Frequently asked questions
What does “toi et moi” mean?
Toi et moi is French for “you and me.” The two-stone design places two gems side by side to symbolize two people coming together — a romantic choice for engagements and anniversaries.
What are the two stones?
A natural emerald-cut morganite and a pear-cut moissanite, each about 0.8 carats (about 1.6 total carats), set together on one band.
Is the morganite natural?
Yes. The morganite is a natural gemstone from the beryl family, in morganite's signature blush pink, at Mohs 7.5–8.
Are the stones diamonds?
No. One is a natural morganite and the other is moissanite (D color, VVS1) — a lab-created gem with exceptional fire and near-diamond hardness. Moissanite is its own gemstone, not a diamond.
How should I care for it?
Clean with warm soapy water and a soft brush. Avoid harsh chemicals and hard knocks, and store the ring separately so the two stones don't scratch each other.
What metals can I choose?
Solid 10K, 14K or 18K rose gold from the drop-down. White or yellow gold are available on request — contact us for a custom quote.
Is the metal solid or plated?
Always solid. The metal runs through the entire piece, so it will never wear off or expose a base metal underneath.
What gives rose gold its color?
Rose gold is gold alloyed with copper, which lends it a warm pink blush. The color is part of the alloy itself, so it won't fade or wear away.
What's the difference between 10K, 14K and 18K?
Higher karats hold more pure gold but are a little softer; lower karats are harder and more affordable. See our karat comparison guide for details.
How do I find my ring size?
Use our ring size guide. The Toi Et Moi is made to order in sizes 3 to 11, including half and quarter sizes.
Is engraving included?
Yes — complimentary engraving of up to 16 characters is included. Add your text at checkout.
How long until it ships?
Each Toi Et Moi ring is handmade to order and typically ships within 3–5 weeks.
