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What Is My Birthstone?

What Is My Birthstone?

Gemstone Guide · Birthstones · All 12 Months

Every month has a stone assigned to it — but the list is only the beginning. Here is the complete guide: what each birthstone actually is, why its color looks the way it does, how durable it is for daily wear, and what it means to wear it.

⏱ 14 Min Read ★ Expert Curated 📅 2026

The birthstone list most people know is a reference chart: one stone per month, twelve stones total, assigned by the calendar. The chart is accurate, and it is a reasonable place to start. But it answers the wrong question. Knowing that September's birthstone is sapphire tells you the name of the stone. It doesn't tell you why sapphire is blue, what produces that specific quality of blue, how sapphire behaves in a ring worn every day, or why this particular stone has been considered meaningful for centuries across cultures that never shared a common language.

This guide answers the deeper question. Every month is covered in full — the stone's optical character, its mineralogy, its hardness and practical durability, its historical significance, the alternate stones where they exist, and the design approaches that suit it best. The official birthstone list is published by the American Gem Society, which maintains the standardized chart first formalized in 1912. Browse birthstone jewelry throughout: birthstone jewelry and May birthstone collection.

Quick reference — birthstones by month: January: Garnet · February: Amethyst · March: Aquamarine (alt: Bloodstone) · April: Diamond · May: Emerald · June: Pearl (alt: Alexandrite) · July: Ruby · August: Peridot (alt: Spinel) · September: Sapphire · October: Opal (alt: Tourmaline) · November: Topaz (alt: Citrine) · December: Tanzanite, Turquoise, or Blue Zircon


Where the Birthstone Tradition Comes From

The association between gemstones and months of birth does not have a single origin. The tradition has roots in at least three independent systems that converged over centuries into the modern birthstone list.

The oldest documented source is the biblical Book of Exodus, which describes twelve gemstones set into the breastplate of Aaron, the High Priest of Israel. The twelve stones were associated with the twelve tribes of Israel and later with the twelve months and the twelve signs of the zodiac in early Judeo-Christian theological writing. The first-century Jewish historian Josephus made this connection explicit, and it was repeated through medieval European scholarship.

Parallel to this, Greco-Roman astrological tradition assigned gemstones to the seven celestial bodies then known — sun, moon, and five planets — and these were mapped against birth months through a different but overlapping system. The Indian subcontinent developed its own navaratna (nine gems) system linking specific stones to planetary influences, some of which overlap with the Western list.

The modern standardized list was formalized in 1912 by the American National Retail Jewelers Association, primarily to regularize commercial practice in the jewelry trade. Stones were added, substituted, and rearranged over subsequent decades: spinel was added to August in 2016; tanzanite was added to December in 2002; alexandrite was added to June in 1952. The list reflects both tradition and the practicalities of what could be consistently sourced and sold.

Historical Note

The practice of wearing all twelve birthstones throughout the year — one per month, rotating on a calendar — was a medieval custom documented in European religious texts. The modern convention of wearing only your birth month's stone developed later, as a more personal and commercially practical interpretation of the same system.


Birthstones by Month — Complete Reference Chart

Month Primary Birthstone Alternate Color Mohs Hardness
January Garnet Deep red (also green, orange, pink) 6.5–7.5
February Amethyst Purple (pale lilac to deep violet) 7
March Aquamarine Bloodstone Pale to medium blue-green 7.5–8
April Diamond Colorless (also fancy colors) 10
May Emerald Green (medium to deep) 7.5–8
June Pearl Alexandrite, Moonstone White/cream (pearl); color-change (alexandrite) 2.5–3 (pearl); 8.5 (alexandrite)
July Ruby Red (pink-red to deep crimson) 9
August Peridot Spinel Olive to lime green (peridot); varied (spinel) 6.5–7 (peridot); 8 (spinel)
September Sapphire Blue (also pink, yellow, teal, white) 9
October Opal Tourmaline Iridescent (opal); varied (tourmaline) 5.5–6.5 (opal); 7–7.5 (tourmaline)
November Topaz Citrine Blue, imperial orange (topaz); golden yellow (citrine) 8 (topaz); 7 (citrine)
December Tanzanite Turquoise, Blue Zircon Blue-violet (tanzanite); sky blue (turquoise) 6.5–7 (tanzanite); 5–6 (turquoise)

Every Birthstone in Depth — All 12 Months

01

January — Garnet

Mohs 6.5–7.5Deep Red · Warm · Grounding

Garnet is not a single mineral — it is a group of chemically related silicate minerals that share the same crystal structure but differ in composition. This is why garnet exists in colors beyond its most recognizable deep red: demantoid garnet is green, spessartite is orange, and rhodolite spans pink to purple-red. The red variety (pyrope and almandine garnet) is the birthstone most people picture, and its color comes from iron and manganese in its crystal structure.

Three rings with red gemstones on a white surface with a blurred purple background

Garnet's color in a ring is distinctive because of how it handles light. The deep red has warmth and depth — it absorbs the blue and green portions of the visible spectrum and reflects red and orange, which means it glows rather than sparkles in incandescent light. This makes garnet particularly beautiful in candlelight or warm artificial lighting, and somewhat less vivid in cool daylight.

At Mohs 6.5–7.5 (the range varies by garnet species), garnet is a practical choice for rings worn with awareness. It is harder than most household abrasives but softer than quartz dust, which is present in ambient air. A garnet ring worn daily will develop surface micro-scratches over years of wear, which affects luster rather than structural integrity. A bezel or protective prong setting preserves the stone's edge quality better than a fully exposed table setting over long-term use.

In jewelry: Garnet pairs naturally with yellow and rose gold, which amplify its warmth. In white gold or silver, the contrast is starker and more architectural. Garnet's durability and deep color also make it one of the strongest choices for alternative engagement rings among the softer birthstones. Browse: birthstone jewelry.

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February — Amethyst

Mohs 7Purple · Calm · Contemplative

Amethyst is quartz — specifically, quartz colored purple by iron impurities and natural irradiation within the crystal structure. The purple color ranges from a pale, almost silvery lilac to a deep, saturated violet that approaches the color of dark plums. The most valued amethyst has a strong, even purple with no visible color zoning — though color zoning (the uneven distribution of purple within the stone) is common in natural amethyst and creates interesting visual texture in step-cut stones.

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The name comes from the ancient Greek word amethystos — meaning "not intoxicated" — reflecting a belief that amethyst protected its wearer from the effects of alcohol. Medieval European clergy wore amethyst as a symbol of piety, and it appears extensively in royal and ecclesiastical jewelry collections. Before the discovery of large deposits in Brazil in the 18th century, amethyst was considered as precious as ruby or sapphire and was reserved for royal and high-church use.

At Mohs 7, amethyst is a practical daily wear stone. It is harder than most metals and softer than sapphire or diamond, which means it will resist casual scratching but should be stored separately from harder stones to avoid being scratched itself. Amethyst can fade with prolonged UV exposure — direct sustained sunlight will gradually lighten the stone's color, particularly in paler specimens. Storing it away from direct light when not worn preserves its color long-term.

In jewelry: Amethyst's purple-to-violet range creates striking contrasts with both yellow gold (warm against cool) and white gold (clean modern register). It pairs particularly well with aquamarine — the blue and purple are complementary colors that create visual harmony without competing. Browse: birthstone jewelry.

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March — Aquamarine

Mohs 7.5–8Pale Blue-Green · Transparent · Calm

Aquamarine is a beryl variety — the same mineral family as emerald — colored by iron rather than chromium. Where chromium produces emerald's intense green, iron in aquamarine's crystal structure produces a pale to medium blue-green that is one of the most distinctive colors in the gemstone world. The name is Latin for "water of the sea," and the color earns it: aquamarine has a transparency and coolness that no other commonly available stone replicates.

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Unlike emerald, which almost always contains inclusions, fine aquamarine is typically eye-clean — meaning inclusions are not visible to the naked eye. This transparency is part of what makes aquamarine's color so atmospheric: the stone is a window into its own interior rather than a colored surface. In emerald and scissor cuts, the transparency creates a quality of depth that is different from the surface reflection of a brilliant-cut stone.

At Mohs 7.5–8, aquamarine is a well-suited choice for daily wear in a ring. It is harder than most environmental abrasives and does not have the cleavage vulnerabilities that make some other stones (like topaz) more fragile than their hardness suggests. Aquamarine belongs to the same family as emerald and like emerald it has good toughness — meaning it resists chipping and breakage well relative to its hardness.

In jewelry: Aquamarine is Aquamarise's signature stone — its transparency, color range, and tonal depth inform the brand's entire aesthetic vocabulary. Browse the full collection: aquamarine engagement rings and the aquamarine gemstone guide.

04

April — Diamond

Mohs 10Colorless · Brilliant · Enduring

Diamond is elemental carbon arranged in a specific crystal structure — the cubic (isometric) system — that produces the hardest natural material on earth and one of the highest refractive indices of any transparent stone. This refractive index (2.42) is what produces diamond's characteristic brilliance and fire: light entering the stone undergoes total internal reflection off the pavilion facets and exits through the table as dispersed white and spectral light.

Three diamond rings in gold, rose gold, and silver on a light background

The colorless diamond most associated with engagement rings and April birthstones is a specific variant — "white" or colorless diamond, graded on a scale from D (colorless) to Z (light yellow or brown) by the GIA. Fancy color diamonds — yellow, pink, blue, green, black — are chemically similar but get their color from different impurities or structural anomalies. Blue diamond gets its color from boron; yellow from nitrogen; pink from plastic deformation during crystal formation.

Diamond has one practical vulnerability that its hardness rating understates: cleavage. Diamond can cleave along specific crystallographic planes with moderate force in the right direction, even though it resists scratching from every other material. This is why jewelers are careful when setting diamonds, and why very thin diamond shapes (like extreme elongated cuts) can be more fragile than their hardness implies. Lab-grown diamonds are chemically and optically identical to mined diamonds — they rank equally at Mohs 10 and have the same optical properties.

In jewelry: April's birthstone is the most versatile in terms of metal pairing — colorless diamond suits every metal color equally. Browse: diamond engagement rings and lab-grown diamond rings.

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May — Emerald

Mohs 7.5–8Deep Green · Rich · Historical

Emerald is a chromium-bearing beryl — the same mineral family as aquamarine — and chromium is the element that produces its color. Where aquamarine's iron-derived color is pale and transparent, chromium in emerald produces a dense, saturated green with a warmth that no other green stone matches at the same intensity level. The specific green of a fine emerald — a rich, slightly bluish medium-to-deep green — is the standard against which all other green gemstones are measured.

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Virtually all natural emeralds contain inclusions — fractures, mineral inclusions, and growth irregularities collectively called a jardin (French for garden). These are not defects; they are a geological record of the conditions under which the crystal formed, and gemologists use them to distinguish natural from synthetic stones and to identify geographic origin. An emerald with a visible jardin is normal; an emerald with no inclusions whatsoever is more likely lab-grown or a different stone entirely. The jardin is part of what makes each natural emerald unique.

Because of the jardin, emerald requires more attentive daily wear than its Mohs 7.5–8 rating suggests. The internal fractures that create the jardin also create pathways for mechanical stress — a sharp lateral impact can crack an emerald along an existing fracture plane even though the stone is technically hard enough to resist scratching. Bezel settings provide better protection than claw prongs because they distribute impact across the stone's perimeter rather than concentrating it at prong contact points.

In jewelry: Emerald pairs extraordinarily well with yellow gold — the warmth of the gold amplifies the warmth in the green, and the combination has appeared in fine jewelry since ancient Egypt. May birthstone collection: may birthstone jewelry and emerald engagement rings.

06

June — Pearl & Alexandrite

Pearl: Mohs 2.5–3 · Alexandrite: Mohs 8.5Luminous · Color-Change

June has two primary birthstones with almost nothing in common mineralogically, which makes it the most interesting multi-stone month in the list. Pearl is not a mineral — it is an organic material produced by mollusks as a defense against irritants, composed of calcium carbonate (aragonite) in a crystalline form called nacre. Alexandrite is a chromium-bearing variety of chrysoberyl that produces one of the rarest optical phenomena in gemology: dramatic color change between daylight and incandescent light.

moonstone pearl alexandrite rings June birthstone banner

Pearl appears white or cream under normal conditions, but fine pearls have a quality called orient — a soft iridescence that appears to float just below the surface, caused by light interacting with the layered nacre structure. Pearls at Mohs 2.5–3 are among the softest materials used in fine jewelry and require the most careful wear of any birthstone: acids (including perspiration and perfume), sharp objects, and ultrasonic cleaners all damage nacre permanently. Pearls should be the last thing put on before going out and the first thing removed.

Alexandrite is one of the rarest gemstones in the world. Its chromium content creates an absorption window in the visible spectrum that straddles the border between green and red — in daylight (which is rich in blue-green wavelengths), the stone appears green; in incandescent light (richer in red wavelengths), it appears red-purple. Fine natural alexandrite with strong color change is rarer than fine ruby or sapphire. Lab-grown alexandrite replicates the color change effect at a fraction of the price and is the practical choice for most birthstone jewelry. Browse: birthstone jewelry.

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July — Ruby

Mohs 9Red · Vivid · Passionate

Ruby is corundum — the same mineral as sapphire — colored red by chromium. The distinction between ruby and pink sapphire is definitional rather than mineralogical: both are chromium-bearing corundum, and the line between "strongly pink sapphire" and "pale ruby" is drawn differently by different grading labs and different countries' gemological conventions. GIA's position is that the red must be the dominant color for a stone to qualify as ruby rather than pink sapphire.

red ruby july birthstone rings banner

Fine ruby's red has a quality that distinguishes it from every other red gemstone: chromium produces a secondary fluorescence in ruby that causes the stone to glow slightly in daylight — the stone appears to generate its own light rather than simply reflecting it. This fluorescence is most pronounced in stones from Burma (now Myanmar), which are considered the benchmark for fine ruby quality. Thai and African rubies tend toward darker, more brownish reds; the Burmese "pigeon blood" red — pure red with a slight blue overtone and strong fluorescence — commands the highest prices in the market.

At Mohs 9 (second only to diamond), ruby is one of the most durable birthstones for daily wear in a ring. It does not have significant cleavage planes that would make it fragile despite its hardness, which means it performs well in settings that leave the stone exposed. This durability, combined with its visual impact, makes ruby one of the most appropriate birthstones for use in engagement rings by those born in July.

In jewelry: Ruby's red is the most saturated color available in a gemstone at Mohs 9 hardness. It pairs powerfully with both yellow gold (warm against warm) and white gold/platinum (the contrast heightens the red's intensity). Browse: birthstone jewelry.

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August — Peridot & Spinel

Peridot: Mohs 6.5–7 · Spinel: Mohs 8Olive Green · Vivid Red-Pink

Peridot is a magnesium iron silicate mineral (olivine) whose color is produced by iron — and unlike most gemstones where iron produces different colors depending on its oxidation state, peridot's green is inherent to its chemical composition and cannot be removed or altered. All peridot is green; the range spans from a pale yellow-green to a rich, slightly brownish olive green. The most valued peridot has a vivid lime-to-grass green without brown overtones, found most notably in deposits in Pakistan's Kohistan region.

three peridot rings banner august birthstone

Peridot has one notable quality relevant to setting choice: it can be brittle along certain stress directions despite its Mohs 6.5–7 rating. It is also sensitive to rapid temperature change — thermal shock can crack peridot. These factors make bezel or protective prong settings more appropriate than open claw settings for daily wear rings. Peridot is also among the few gemstones that form in the earth's mantle rather than the crust — some peridot has extraterrestrial origin, found in meteorites (pallasites).

Spinel was added as August's alternate birthstone in 2016 and is a dramatically different stone. Spinel (magnesium aluminum oxide) occurs in vivid reds, pinks, oranges, and purples, and at Mohs 8 is harder and tougher than peridot. For centuries, the most famous "rubies" in royal jewelry collections — including the Black Prince's Ruby in the British Imperial State Crown — were actually red spinels. The confusion is understandable: fine red spinel can equal fine ruby in color intensity, and spinel fluoresces similarly. It is now prized in its own right as a collector's stone.

In jewelry: Peridot's yellow-green suits yellow gold for a warm, historical pairing. Red or hot-pink spinel in white gold or platinum creates striking contemporary jewelry. Browse: birthstone jewelry.

09

September — Sapphire

Mohs 9Blue · Teal · Pink · Every Color Except Red

Sapphire is corundum that is any color other than red — red corundum is ruby by definition. The most familiar sapphire is blue, and blue sapphire is what almost everyone pictures when they hear the word. Blue sapphire gets its color from iron and titanium in the crystal structure — the specific pairing of these two elements produces a rich blue that varies from a pale, almost lavender-blue to a deep velvety navy. The most valued blue sapphires (traditionally from Kashmir, now rare; also from Burma and Sri Lanka) have a vivid, slightly violet-tinged blue that has been described as "cornflower" at the lighter end and "royal blue" at the deeper.

Sapphire also exists in yellow, pink, orange (padparadscha — a rare and highly valued pinkish-orange), green, teal, purple, and colorless varieties. Teal sapphire — a blue-green that sits at the boundary between blue and green — has become particularly significant in alternative engagement ring design because its unusual color has no natural comparison point. Parti sapphire, which shows color zoning between blue, green, and sometimes yellow within a single stone, is similarly distinctive and has moved from a curiosity to a design feature in contemporary fine jewelry.

Blue gemstone ring on a finger

At Mohs 9, sapphire is the second hardest natural gemstone after diamond and is the most practical choice among the highly colored birthstones for daily wear in a ring. It lacks significant cleavage planes and has excellent toughness. Sapphire is appropriate for any setting style, including open claw and elevated prong settings that would require more caution with softer stones.

In jewelry: Sapphire is Aquamarise's most frequently used colored stone alongside aquamarine. Browse: sapphire engagement rings. For the full guide to September's birthstone: birthstone jewelry.

10

October — Opal & Tourmaline

Opal: Mohs 5.5–6.5 · Tourmaline: Mohs 7–7.5Iridescent · Vivid

Opal's play-of-color — the shifting spectral iridescence that makes the stone appear to contain fire, sky, and water simultaneously — is produced by the diffraction of light through silica spheres arranged in a regular pattern within the stone's structure. The colors visible in any given opal depend on the diameter and arrangement of these spheres: larger spheres diffract longer wavelengths (red and orange); smaller spheres diffract shorter wavelengths (blue and violet). An opal that shows all spectral colors has sphere layers of varying size, and the pattern in which those colors appear — pinfire (tiny flecks), harlequin (large patches), rolling flash (sweeping color sheets) — depends on the spheres' spatial arrangement.

three opal rings October birthstone banner

At Mohs 5.5–6.5, opal is the softest commonly used birthstone for rings and requires the most protective setting design of any October option. Opal also contains water (between 3–21% by weight) and can craze — develop a network of surface cracks — if it loses water rapidly through prolonged low humidity, excessive heat, or sustained UV exposure. Solid opal should be stored away from heat sources and periodic exposure to mild humidity helps prevent crazing in older stones.

Tourmaline is a boron silicate mineral group that occurs in a wider range of colors than almost any other gemstone — pink, red, green, blue, yellow, black, and combinations including watermelon tourmaline (pink core, green exterior). At Mohs 7–7.5, it is substantially more durable than opal for daily ring wear. Paraíba tourmaline — an electric neon blue-green variety from Brazil and Mozambique colored by copper — is among the most vivid colors available in any gemstone and among the rarest and most expensive.

In jewelry: Opal suits settings designed to cradle the stone at low elevation — bezel and low-profile designs protect its edges and reduce impact risk. Tourmaline in its vivid color varieties suits any modern setting. Browse: opal engagement rings.

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November — Topaz & Citrine

Topaz: Mohs 8 · Citrine: Mohs 7Blue · Imperial Orange · Golden Yellow

Topaz in its natural pure form is colorless. The most commercially widespread topaz sold today is blue topaz — almost all of which has been irradiated and heat-treated to produce its color, as natural blue topaz is rare. The blue topaz range (sky blue, Swiss blue, London blue) spans from pale ice blue to a deep grayish-blue that approaches indicolite tourmaline in intensity. Imperial topaz — the orange to pink-orange variety found primarily in Ouro Preto, Brazil — is the most historically significant color and the most valuable, occurring naturally without treatment.

four London blue topaz rings November birthstone banner

Topaz at Mohs 8 is hard, but it has one important structural characteristic that affects ring design: perfect basal cleavage. This means topaz can split cleanly along one specific plane with relatively modest force applied in the right direction — a property relevant to how it is set and how it is worn. Topaz in a setting that might be knocked directly on its base face is more vulnerable than a rounded brilliant cut in the same scenario. Bezel settings or secure prong configurations that protect the stone from direct impact on its cleavage plane are appropriate for topaz rings.

Citrine is quartz colored yellow to orange-brown by iron impurities. Much commercial citrine is heat-treated amethyst — natural citrine is rarer. At Mohs 7 and without topaz's cleavage vulnerability, citrine is a practical choice for daily wear that requires less setting-design caution than its November counterpart. Its golden to amber yellow suits warm metal tones particularly well.

three citrine rings November birthstone banner

In jewelry: Imperial topaz in yellow gold creates a historically resonant combination — imperial topaz's orange warmth deepens noticeably against warm metal. Browse: birthstone jewelry.

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December — Tanzanite, Turquoise & Blue Zircon

Tanzanite: Mohs 6.5–7 · Turquoise: Mohs 5–6 · Blue Zircon: Mohs 7.5Blue-Violet · Sky Blue

Tanzanite is a blue-violet variety of the mineral zoisite, found in only one geological area on earth — a small zone near the Merelani Hills in northern Tanzania, near Mount Kilimanjaro. Its geological rarity is absolute: unlike most gemstones that occur in multiple locations worldwide, tanzanite has no other known source. The stone is also trichroic — it appears blue, violet, and burgundy depending on the viewing angle. Most cut tanzanite is oriented to show blue or blue-violet face-up, but the other colors are visible when the stone is rotated.

Tanzanite at Mohs 6.5–7 requires careful handling for a daily wear ring. It has two cleavage planes that can make it more fragile under impact than its hardness suggests. It is best suited to protective settings — bezels or secure four-prong configurations — and should be removed during activities with high impact risk. Its rarity and declining supply (the single mine is estimated to be exhausted within decades) makes it a stone with genuine investment character alongside its aesthetic one.

Turquoise is one of the oldest gemstones in continuous use — it appears in Egyptian jewelry from 3,000 BCE and was sacred in pre-Columbian Mesoamerican cultures. Its sky blue to blue-green color comes from copper and iron. At Mohs 5–6, it is among the softer birthstones and is typically used in cabochon (domed, uncut) form rather than faceted. It should be kept away from acids, chemicals, and prolonged moisture.

Blue Zircon should not be confused with cubic zirconia (CZ), which is a completely different synthetic material. Zircon is a natural mineral (zirconium silicate) with high refractive index and dispersion that approaches diamond's optical character. Heat-treated blue zircon produces a vivid electric blue that is one of the most striking colors in the birthstone system. At Mohs 7.5, it is practical for jewelry but is somewhat brittle and benefits from protective settings.

In jewelry: Tanzanite's blue-violet depth suits platinum and white gold, which let the stone's cool tonal complexity read clearly. Browse: birthstone jewelry.


Birthstone Durability — Which Stones Work for Daily Wear Rings

The Mohs hardness scale measures a stone's resistance to scratching — but hardness alone does not determine how a stone performs in a ring worn every day. Toughness (resistance to chipping and cracking), cleavage (planes along which a stone can split), and sensitivity to chemicals or heat all factor into the practical durability of a birthstone ring.

Birthstone Mohs Daily Ring Use Key Consideration
Diamond (Apr) 10 Excellent Basal cleavage — resist hard impacts on table face
Ruby (Jul) / Sapphire (Sep) 9 Excellent Most durable colored stones; no significant cleavage
Alexandrite (Jun) 8.5 Excellent Very durable; natural specimens extremely rare
Topaz (Nov) 8 Good with care Perfect basal cleavage — protective settings preferred
Spinel (Aug) 8 Excellent No significant cleavage; underrated durability
Aquamarine (Mar) / Emerald (May) 7.5–8 Good Emerald: internal fractures require protective settings
Amethyst (Feb) / Citrine (Nov) 7 Good Quartz; fades with prolonged UV; practical for rings
Garnet (Jan) 6.5–7.5 Good Species-dependent; most garnets well-suited to rings
Tanzanite (Dec) 6.5–7 Moderate — protect it Two cleavage planes; remove for impact activities
Peridot (Aug) 6.5–7 Moderate — protect it Brittle; sensitive to thermal shock
Blue Zircon (Dec) 7.5 Good with care Brittle; facet edges can chip
Tourmaline (Oct) 7–7.5 Good Most practical October stone for rings
Opal (Oct) 5.5–6.5 Requires care Hydration-sensitive; low-profile protective setting essential
Turquoise (Dec) 5–6 Requires care Acid and chemical sensitive; cabochon in bezel best
Pearl (Jun) 2.5–3 Not for daily rings Nacre damaged by acid, perfume, ultrasonic cleaning
Setting Note

For stones rated "requires care" or "moderate" — opal, turquoise, tanzanite, peridot — the right setting choice extends the ring's practical life significantly. A full bezel converts what would be an exposed edge or point into a protected surface. The engagement ring setting types guide covers the full structural comparison. For birthstone ring design: best gemstones for engagement rings.

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Frequently Asked Questions

The questions people ask most about birthstones.

What is a birthstone?

A birthstone is a gemstone traditionally associated with a specific month of birth. The modern standardized list was formalized by the American National Retail Jewelers Association in 1912, though the practice of connecting gemstones to months has roots in ancient traditions including biblical references and Greco-Roman astrological systems. The official list is maintained by the American Gem Society.

Which months have two birthstones?

Six months have multiple official birthstones: June (pearl and alexandrite), August (peridot and spinel), October (opal and tourmaline), November (topaz and citrine), December (tanzanite, turquoise, and blue zircon), and March (aquamarine, with bloodstone as a traditional alternate). In each case the alternate stones were added to offer a more accessible option or to reflect evolving buyer preferences. Browse: birthstone jewelry.

What is the rarest birthstone?

Alexandrite (June's alternate) is among the rarest gemstones in the world — natural alexandrite with strong color change is exceptionally scarce. Tanzanite (December) is geologically rare, found only near Mount Kilimanjaro in Tanzania and estimated to be exhausted within decades. Fine red spinel (August's alternate) and natural padparadscha sapphire are also considered rare collector stones. Browse: birthstone jewelry.

Can you wear a birthstone that isn't your month?

Yes — completely. The birthstone system is a tradition that offers a starting point for personal meaning, not a restriction. Many people choose birthstones for their color, optical character, or meaning without regard to month assignment. Others combine multiple birthstones — their own month, a partner's, a child's — in a single piece. The stone means what it means to the person wearing it. Browse the full range: best gemstones for engagement rings.

Which birthstone is the hardest and most durable?

Diamond (April) at Mohs 10 is the hardest natural material. Sapphire (September) and ruby (July) at Mohs 9 are the most durable colored birthstones. These three are best suited to rings worn daily without special care requirements. Aquamarine (March), garnet (January), amethyst (February), and topaz (November) are practical at Mohs 7–8. Opal (October) and pearl (June) require the most careful wear. See the full durability table above and the gemstone guide.

What is the birthstone for May?

The birthstone for May is emerald — a chromium-bearing beryl producing one of the most recognized greens in gemology. Natural emeralds almost always contain inclusions (called a jardin) which are considered part of the stone's character. Emerald sits at Mohs 7.5–8 but benefits from protective settings because of its internal fracture structure. Browse: May birthstone collection and emerald engagement rings.

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