{"product_id":"toi-et-moi-garnet-black-onyx-leaf-vine-ring-black-ruthenium","title":"Toi Et Moi Garnet \u0026 Black Onyx Leaf Vine Engagement Ring in Black Ruthenium","description":"\u003cstyle\u003e\n.product-rich-content { font-family: inherit; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 1.65; max-width: 720px; margin: 0 auto; }\n.product-rich-content h2 { font-size: 1.35em; font-weight: 600; color: #1a1a1a; margin-top: 2em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; padding-bottom: 0.4em; border-bottom: 1px solid #e6cfd2; letter-spacing: -0.01em; }\n.product-rich-content h2:first-child { margin-top: 0; }\n.product-rich-content p { margin: 0.8em 0; }\n.product-rich-content ul { padding-left: 1.4em; margin: 0.8em 0; }\n.product-rich-content li { margin-bottom: 0.4em; }\n.product-rich-content .lead-paragraph { font-size: 1.05em; color: #1a1a1a; padding: 1em 1.2em; background: #f8eeee; border-left: 3px solid #7a1f2b; border-radius: 4px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; }\n.product-rich-content .feature-pills { display: flex; flex-wrap: wrap; gap: 0.5em; margin: 1.2em 0; }\n.product-rich-content .feature-pills .pill { background: #f8eeee; color: #7a1f2b; padding: 0.4em 0.9em; border-radius: 100px; font-size: 0.88em; font-weight: 500; border: 1px solid #e6cfd2; }\n.product-rich-content .spec-card { background: #fafafa; border: 1px solid #ececec; border-radius: 6px; padding: 1.2em 1.5em; margin: 1em 0; }\n.product-rich-content .spec-card ul { margin: 0; }\n.product-rich-content .spec-card li { list-style: none; padding: 0.35em 0; border-bottom: 1px dashed #e8e8e8; }\n.product-rich-content .spec-card li:last-child { border-bottom: none; }\n.product-rich-content .spec-card strong { display: inline-block; min-width: 140px; color: #1a1a1a; }\n.product-rich-content .product-faq { margin-top: 2.5em; }\n.product-rich-content .product-faq h2 { margin-bottom: 1em; }\n.product-rich-content .faq-item { border: 1px solid #e8e8e8; border-radius: 6px; margin-bottom: 0.6em; background: #fff; transition: border-color 0.2s ease; }\n.product-rich-content .faq-item:hover { border-color: #7a1f2b; }\n.product-rich-content .faq-item summary { cursor: pointer; padding: 0.9em 1.1em; font-weight: 500; list-style: none; color: #1a1a1a; position: relative; padding-right: 2.5em; }\n.product-rich-content .faq-item summary::-webkit-details-marker { display: none; }\n.product-rich-content .faq-item summary::after { content: \"+\"; position: absolute; right: 1.1em; top: 50%; transform: translateY(-50%); font-size: 1.3em; color: #7a1f2b; font-weight: 300; transition: transform 0.2s ease; }\n.product-rich-content .faq-item[open] summary::after { content: \"−\"; }\n.product-rich-content .faq-item[open] summary { border-bottom: 1px solid #e6cfd2; }\n.product-rich-content .faq-item p { padding: 0 1.2em 1em; margin: 0.6em 0 0; color: #4a4a4a; }\n@media (max-width: 600px) {\n.product-rich-content .spec-card strong { display: block; min-width: auto; margin-bottom: 0.2em; }\n}\n\u003c\/style\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"product-rich-content\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"lead-paragraph\"\u003eTwo stones side by side: a 4 × 8 mm marquise natural garnet in deep red and a 4 × 6 mm pear black onyx. Blackened leaves frame the pair, and the band is two strands twisted like a vine, one of them set with small round onyx. Solid 925 sterling silver with a black ruthenium finish.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"feature-pills\"\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"pill\"\u003eToi et Moi\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"pill\"\u003eNatural Garnet, 4 × 8 mm\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"pill\"\u003eNatural Black Onyx, 4 × 6 mm\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"pill\"\u003eLeaf and Vine Band\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"pill\"\u003eBlack Ruthenium Finish\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"pill\"\u003eSizes 4–11\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eThe Design\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eToi et moi means \"you and me\": two stones set together, one for each person. Here a red marquise leans against a black pear, each in its own prongs, so the two read as a pair and not as a center stone with a side stone. Our guide to \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/aquamarise.com\/blogs\/journal\/what-is-a-toi-et-moi-ring\"\u003ewhat a toi et moi ring means\u003c\/a\u003e covers the history of the style.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe setting is botanical. A leaf curls up on either side of the stones, and the band splits into two strands that twist around each other like a vine, one polished and one set with a row of small round onyx. In black it reads as a thorned vine more than a garden one. If you are looking past a plain solitaire, our guide to \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/aquamarise.com\/blogs\/journal\/non-traditional-engagement-rings-a-complete-buyer-s-guide\"\u003enon-traditional engagement rings\u003c\/a\u003e maps the wider field.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eThe Garnet and the Onyx\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe marquise is \u003cstrong\u003enatural garnet\u003c\/strong\u003e, a deep red with a wine-dark body that flashes brighter red when light passes through it. Garnet is the January birthstone and sits at 6.5 to 7.5 on the Mohs scale. Our pieces on \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/aquamarise.com\/blogs\/journal\/garnet-meaning\"\u003egarnet meaning\u003c\/a\u003e and \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/aquamarise.com\/blogs\/journal\/garnet-engagement-rings-guide\"\u003egarnet engagement rings\u003c\/a\u003e cover the lore and the practical questions, and the \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/aquamarise.com\/blogs\/journal\/january-birthstone\"\u003eJanuary birthstone guide\u003c\/a\u003e has more on garnet as a gift.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe pear is \u003cstrong\u003enatural black onyx\u003c\/strong\u003e, an opaque black chalcedony, and the small round stones along the band are natural onyx too. Onyx has long been worn as a stone of protection and resolve, covered in our piece on \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/aquamarise.com\/blogs\/journal\/black-onyx-meaning\"\u003eblack onyx meaning\u003c\/a\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eMetal\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe ring is solid 925 sterling silver with a \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/aquamarise.com\/blogs\/journal\/what-is-black-ruthenium\"\u003eblack ruthenium\u003c\/a\u003e finish, a platinum-group metal that settles to a deep gunmetal rather than a flat black. The darkened metal and the onyx drop away visually and leave the garnet as the only color.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003ePart of our \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/aquamarise.com\/collections\/toi-et-moi-engagement-rings\"\u003etoi et moi engagement rings\u003c\/a\u003e, \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/aquamarise.com\/collections\/gothic-engagement-rings\"\u003egothic engagement rings\u003c\/a\u003e and \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/aquamarise.com\/collections\/black-onyx-engagement-rings\"\u003eblack onyx engagement rings\u003c\/a\u003e collections, alongside the rest of our \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/aquamarise.com\/collections\/black-ruthenium-jewelry\"\u003eblack ruthenium jewelry\u003c\/a\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eSpecifications\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"spec-card\"\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eStone one:\u003c\/strong\u003e Natural garnet, marquise cut, 4 × 8 mm\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eStone two:\u003c\/strong\u003e Natural black onyx, pear cut, 4 × 6 mm\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eAccent stones:\u003c\/strong\u003e Round natural black onyx along one strand of the band\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eMetal:\u003c\/strong\u003e Solid 925 sterling silver, black ruthenium finish\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDesign:\u003c\/strong\u003e Toi et moi setting, leaf details, twisted vine band\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eHardness:\u003c\/strong\u003e Garnet 6.5–7.5, onyx 6.5–7 on the Mohs scale\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eSizes:\u003c\/strong\u003e 4 to 11, including half sizes\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eEngraving:\u003c\/strong\u003e Available, up to 16 characters\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePresentation:\u003c\/strong\u003e Free luxury velvet jewelry box\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eCare\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eGarnet and onyx both suit daily wear with normal care. Clean with warm water, mild soap and a soft brush. Avoid ultrasonic cleaners and household chemicals, which dull the ruthenium finish, and take the ring off for the gym, gardening and heavy cleaning. Store it in its velvet box rather than loose.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"product-faq\"\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eFrequently Asked Questions\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cdetails class=\"faq-item\"\u003e\u003csummary\u003eIs the garnet natural?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eYes. The marquise stone is natural garnet.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003cdetails class=\"faq-item\"\u003e\u003csummary\u003eIs the black stone natural onyx?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eYes. The pear stone and the small round stones along the band are natural black onyx.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003cdetails class=\"faq-item\"\u003e\u003csummary\u003eWhat does toi et moi mean?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt is French for \"you and me\". The style sets two stones side by side, one for each person in the couple.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003cdetails class=\"faq-item\"\u003e\u003csummary\u003eHow big are the two stones?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe marquise garnet is 4 × 8 mm and the pear onyx is 4 × 6 mm.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003cdetails class=\"faq-item\"\u003e\u003csummary\u003eWhat color is the garnet?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eA deep red. It looks wine-dark in low light and flashes a brighter red when light passes through it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003cdetails class=\"faq-item\"\u003e\u003csummary\u003eIs garnet a birthstone?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eYes. Garnet is the January birthstone.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003cdetails class=\"faq-item\"\u003e\u003csummary\u003eAre garnet and onyx durable enough for an engagement ring?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eYes, with normal care. Garnet is 6.5 to 7.5 on the Mohs scale and onyx is 6.5 to 7. Remove the ring for manual work and avoid harsh chemicals.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003cdetails class=\"faq-item\"\u003e\u003csummary\u003eHow dark is the black ruthenium finish?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eRuthenium finishes to a deep gunmetal rather than a flat jet black. The slight reflectivity keeps the leaves and the twist of the band visible.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003cdetails class=\"faq-item\"\u003e\u003csummary\u003eWhat is the ring made of?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eSolid 925 sterling silver throughout, with a black ruthenium finish. No brass or base metal.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003cdetails class=\"faq-item\"\u003e\u003csummary\u003eDoes this ring come in other versions?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eYes. The same design is also made in sterling silver with a simulated aquamarine and a simulated diamond. 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